All online dating platforms will always have this kind of imbalance. There is literally no way of solving the problem; even Bumble, who only allow women to message first, has a huge gender imbalance.

It's like going to India as a westerner. You will get harassed by people trying to sell you things, and it's annoying. But you're still the priveleged one in this situation.

In the same way, despite the harassment women get online, they're still the ones in a priveleged position on online dating platforms. While women have to deal with nonsense, they're still the ones who get to easily select from a pool of thousands of men. Men, on the other hand, only get to choose from the very small number of women who match them.

If you were going to weigh up the positives and negatives of being a man or a woman on online dating apps, it's women who get to experience more positives than negatives, despite the downsides.