Black Americans DO have plenty of privileges that Albanians do not. The privilege of having English as a first language. The privilege of holding an American passport and being able to easily travel. The privilege of having their culture represented around the world in movies and TV shows.
White privilege may hold true in other white nations, but black Americans are clearly overall more privileged than white Ukrainians. By a country mile. A lot of Woke Americans falsely believe that being white = being privileged because they've never stepped foot outside America. Although, I'm aware that isn't actually what white privilege means.
You've listed a number of crimes that women commonly suffer from, but your list is completely handpicked and selective. Why not don't you go and ask the men who are homeless, who are serving long jail sentences (longer than women on average), who had their lives ruined by divorce courts or who are suffering psychological damage after being drafted into the Vietnam war, if they feel like they're enjoying their "male privilege" today? But the real suffering of men doesn't fit into the woke narrative and is therefore basically never discussed.
Please point to the country today that isn't a "patriarchy". Because I can look around the entire world, Vietnam, India, Somalia, Peru, Saudi Arabia, Ethiopia... and I can't find a single country where women earn more than men, and where women hold the majority of powerful positions.
It's not "whataboutism" it's about comparing America to other places in the world and gaining perspective. Again, at no point did I say that oppression in the USA isn't important.
As a final note, you have assumed I'm from the US, which is false.