I remember the first time I dated a Korean girl when I was 25 years old. I organised a camping trip for us to go on. She simply let me organise everything and came along for the ride.

It was like a huge breath of fresh air. I just remember feeling so relaxed and at peace.

I did a terrible job of putting up the tent. We got lost a couple of times. But she simply sat back and let me figure it out, which I eventually did. There was no arguing, no bickering, complaining or demeaning. What a relief.

Dating foreign women from more traditional cultures, who may be a little more submissive, just feels like such a relief. And it feels like you've been missing out on something your entire life until you do. A lot of western women are stressful to be around. I feel as though they've forgotten who they are.

For me, I don't want to control. I want to lead. It feels good and natural. Men who abuse this leadership position are utter scumbags.