I understand your points, and I have empathy towards them, but I really, really fail to see the big problem.

Talk to 20 guys. Put some work in filtering out the creeps and weirdos. And choose the 1 or 2 good ones. You could have a new date with a decent guy every single week. Do that for 2-3 months, and the chances of you finding a man who's boyfriend material is very, very high.

It's like somebody complaining to a homeless person that apartment hunting is stressful and a pain. Like, yes, apartment hunting is annoying, stressful, hard work and some landlords are creeps and scammers. But you have the ability to choose the apartment that you want, while the homeless person is sleeping in a cardboard box on the street living a life of utter hopelessness.

I think women underestimate the sheer lack of options that millions upon millions of men have. Men go on dating apps, pay a fortune for premium services, and one year later they still haven't been on a single date. Not one. Not because they're fussy, but because literally nobody will agree to go on a date with them. No this is not an exaggeration.

There are men in their 20's and 30's who have been unable to find a date within the last 5 years.