I'm glad you think that's an exaggeration, because a lot of feminists do not. To them, every single thing in our society can explained through the lens of patriarchy.

Correct. Our thoughts and opinions are coloured by the dominant culture.

And what is the dominant culture in 2023?

Have you watched any movies lately? Have you watched TV? Do the latest movies and TV shows contain patriarchal themes? No they do not. Because in 2023, mainstream culture is not patriarchal.

You will notice, however, that when feminists speak. it is automatically assumed that the patriarchy is an all encompassing truth that cannot be argued with.