It’s not really only the extremes.

From the male perspective, we can see that it’s often the man who can intimidate the men around them who end up doing the best with women.

Being a “good person” is more or less inconsequential when it comes to attracting women.

Personally, I’ve had for more success with women leaning into being a cocky asshole type than I ever did being a genuine, good person.

So when men read articles like yours, we have a deep sense that what you’re saying isn’t actually true because we have lived experiences that contradict what you say.