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Pick-up Artists Are Exactly What The Dating World Needs
But nobody is ready to hear that
Hear the term “pick-up artist” and most of you will cringe.
The term probably conjures in your mind an image of a weird, fedora-wearing creep who tries to manipulate and “trick” women into going to bed with them.
Well, you’re wrong about that. In fact, pick-up artists are exactly what the dating world needs right now. And I’m about to explain why.
As a woman, the men who approach you are leaving you with an inaccurate representation of men as a whole. As represented by Mathew Hussey’s chart, only a small percentage of men tend to do most of the approaching.
These “players” have plenty of experience in approaching women — they’ve approached hundreds before you, and will approach hundreds afterwards. Some are genuinely, cool, social guys living their best life. Others benefit from narcissistic and sociopathic tendencies that give them unflinching confidence. A confidence that, unfortunately, women often find incredibly attractive.
