MediaVSReality
1 min readFeb 12, 2020

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So a woman was into you. She was smiling. She was having fun.

And this is..bad?

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with what you did. Women like to be challenged. A bit of conflict is flirtatious. Nobody wants someone who agrees with them all the time.

I mean this is flirting 101. The idea that you believe you did something wrong is just proof of the tip-toeing dating landscape that many people feel they live in today.

And this obsession with negging is incredibly strange. This was a Pick Up Artist tactic that was popular around in the early 2000’s. The PUA community don’t even talk about it anymore. The only time I see negging even talked about is from writers on the internet trying to hate on PUA.

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