Something that I find annoying is that I have to demonstrate my “decisiveness” on dates, or the woman will be turned off.

The truth is, I couldn’t give a damn which cafe or bar we go to. They’re all basically the same. I also don’t care much about what to order from the menu. I’m not exactly a foodie.

But I know letting her choose, or being unsure of which cafe or bar to go to will be seen as a “a man with no direction”, so I just choose one at random and act like I know what I’m doing.

Its kind of ridiculous that women judge your entire character based on trivial things like this, but what can you do.