MediaVSReality
1 min readJul 18, 2023

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Thanks for the advice, but it's written in the tone of someone who has never actually had to do this for themselves.

If men try to stick to every single rule that women have about when he should approach, how he should approach and so on, he will never approach anyone. He will wander around all day, wanting to approach women and being too afraid to do so.

How do I know this? I've lived it. My "lived experience" if you will.

As a man interested in women, at a certain point you have to not give a damn what the "rules" are, approach women even though you're nervous, even though your entire body is telling you not to. You need to make mistakes and get rejected. Sometimes you come across too weak and friendly and there's no chemistry, and sometimes you come across too strongly and move into the realm of scary. And yes, when you're still new to approaching women, you will accidently come across as creepy at times.

Try to only approach women at the "perfect" time, and you'll never approach anyone.

This is the reality when approaching women. It's messy, scary, difficult, and these days, socially unacceptable.

The only people worth taking advice from are those who have put themselves out there and have personally gone through it.

So yes, you can approach women wherever you like. And yes it does work. And yes, if you practise and become skilled at it, women will generally be happy that you did.

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