The truth is that men on average have better control over the car, but also do a lot of dumb stuff like driving to fast, driving drunk and so on.

So it depends on how you define a "good driver".

If a good driver means a safe driver, then we can say women are better drivers.

But if a good driver means the ability to maneuver the car effectively, then men are better drivers.

Evidence: https://www.statista.com/statistics/301246/practical-driving-tests-pass-rate-in-the-united-kingdom-by-gender/