This is called a strawman argument.
Here are some legitimate reasons why men are mad about dating:
1. Many many believe getting married is dangerous because divorce courts favour massively on the side of women. Also, the majority of divorces are initiated by women. Countless men get emotionally destroyed by divorce.
2. Many men believe that women have grown entitled, and have unrealistic expectations that they can't hope to meet.
3. Many men feel as though women treat them as success objects. Being chosen based on how much they earn or the level of prestige they have.
Try actually listening to men and listening to real arguments instead of strawman arguments you made up.