You're just reciting ideological points that you've heard from others.
This ongoing idea that insulting women is somehow "worse" than insulting men has to die.
Men have been oppressed in all kinds fo ways throughout history and even today. How about forcing millions of men as young as 18 in front of machine gun fire to die in wars. Would that be "oppression" in your eyes? Does that somehow not count.
Throughout history young men have been treated disposable pawns and their lives considered worthless. Calling men "trash" is just as harmful as calling women trash.
You're just living inside a strange narrative (that's so common today) that only women have been unfairly treated throughout history, and therefore it's somehow "worse" to insult women.